BMW X5 service???? What to choose from big list?

I have BMW x5 3.0 2002 ,and I took it to the delaer to fix door lock,but here is what they suggest to do:

1)Flush brakes

2)Change calipers (they said they doubled,even they stop fine)

3)Change bolt joints

4)Wheel alignment (even my car drives pefectly straight and no wrogn tear on tires)

5) Throttle wiring change + change hose

6) Thermostat change

7)Fix door lock



What would you do ,which is really urgent to do? And how long can I drive more without fixing everything?BMW X5 service???? What to choose from big list?
get a second opinion from a repair shop that will evaluate for free. anytime you go to a shop they give you a list of things that should be done, they need business.



dont go directly to the dealer because they charge you an arm and a leg.



fix the door lock yourself im sure you can find directions online.



BMW X5 service???? What to choose from big list?
Just tell them to fix the door lock. They are just trying to make money out of you.